Dear Dr. Brian:
I dated a guy for five years. He told me he would get out of his relationship with a guy he was living with for 10 years. We hit it off great and he was happy with me. I don’t know why he just dropped me and told me he would let me know when he is single. He doesn’t email me anymore or call. It is coming around a year and I can’t get over him and move on.
In the gay world, have I been played? Any ideas on how to get over someone you love so much? I was so set he was the right one.
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