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Have you seen DatingAdvice.com’s lastest study that says gay Americans are more likely to kiss on the first date than our straight counterparts? If not, check it out here. What are your thoughts on why this might be the case? Equally striking is the amount of gay men who report their dislike for this form of affection and intimacy. Why would this be? For me, there’s no bigger turn-on!

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Dear Coach:

What can we do to spice up our sex life? I have a younger lover and I
think he is getting bored!

When I got together with my boyfriend, I told him I was a top and he told me he was a bottom, and for six months now, I’ve topped, he’s bottomed. I want to try things the other way around, but every time we go there, he freaks out and can’t perform. Is there anything I can do to get him over his fear? read more >>

Dear Coach:

I would like to be more flexible in my ability to satisfy my lover. Having had limited experience “topping” in the past, I wonder if there are techniques I can apply to help me overcome my inability to top when asked to. I start out aroused but then lose confidence as I attempt to follow though. Any ideas?

Top In Training


Dear Coach:

I was wondering if you could point me in the direction of information on couples with sexual incompatibility issues. My partner and I have been together for 9 years and for the last 6 months or so have had some issues around sex. He seems to like more kink than I am comfortable with. Do you have any suggestions or resources that speak to this?

Too Kinky For Comfort