Dear Coach:
My ex-boyfriend wants to get back with me after a recent breakup. Should we reconcile? read more >>
Dear Coach:
I have met a GREAT guy and we spend every moment together and have a lot of fun. After 5 weeks of dating we kissed, and a week later we had non-stop sex for four days straight. His ex found out that he was starting to see a new guy (me!) and decides to mess with his head. They got into a big fight and now the ex is out of the picture again and the guy I’m seeing realizes that he was trying to sabotage him. We are still spending a lot of time together and he has asked me away on a trip for New Year’s Eve, which I have accepted. read more >>
Dating a Guy with a Lot of Notches on His Bedpost
Question: I’ve been single for a while now, mostly because I’m choosy. However, one of my friends introduced me to a friend of his, and we really hit it off. He’s everything I want—smart, funny, charming—and it’s also the most amazing sex I’ve ever had. The bad new is this: As I continue to get to know him, it’s become clear to me that he has slept with just about everybody I know. Look, I don’t want to pass judgment on that, but I have to be honest, there’s a part of me that feels like he’s a total slut. The good news is he says he’s really into me, has acknowledged his past, and says he wants to be monogamous with me. I really want to get behind that and trust him, but am wondering how I am going to get past this, you know? read more >>
Can Two Tops Date?
Question: I met someone recently and the attraction was immediate. He’s amazing, and we also have everything in common—we just look at each other googley-eyed all the time. We’ve messed around a few times already and it’s so passionate. But here’s the problem: we’re both tops. And I don’t mean versatile tops, I mean we’re both 100% tops-tops. We’ve talked about this, but the issue does seem to have put up some sort of barrier between us. See, for now, it’s fine and it’s not a big deal. But if this relationship actually goes somewhere, which I think it might, this could become a really big deal. Do I end this now, or do I stick with it and try to work it out. And how the heck do I work this out? read more >>
I’ve been dating this guy for about two weeks and I really like him. We haven’t had sex yet. He just told me he is HIV-positive. What should I do? read more >>
I’ve been dating a guy for a few months who I like a lot. The problem is he’s older, makes a ton more money than I do, and I can’t help but be reminded of that every time we do anything together. He wants to travel … I can’t afford to go where he wants. We go to fancy restaurants and he has to pay. How can I tell him I like him, but we need to do things more on the level of my pay grade? read more >>
Dear Coach:
I have been seeing a guy who is already in a relationship of 8 years and lives with his partner; he says that they never have sex anymore. This guy is so sexy and I can’t resist him. We hook up at my place pretty regularly. I don’t have a boyfriend or anything, so I don’t feel like I have anything to lose. We have safe sex and we both feel very pleased with the arrangement. Could it be that this guy’s relationship with his partner is going bad or already is? Am I a fool for having ongoing sex with him? What do you think?
Hooked On a Taken Man
Dear Coach:
I’m 27 and met a guy a few months ago and have become good friends. We’ve gone out a few times and feel that we have good chemistry. I’d like to step this up to the next level and possibly pursue a relationship with him but he feels more toward me as a friend he says. He keeps on dating other guys but continues to “date” me as well and I’m really confused about what this all means. What should I do? It feels to me that when we spend time together, it’s more couple-like than two friends hanging out and I’m really disturbed by his decision to date other guys.Does He or Doesn’t He?
Dear Coach:
I’m wondering how to deal with dating someone who still lives at home with his parents and is not “out.” He is in his 40’s, identifies himself as bisexual, and we have a “sex bud” arrangement going. I really like him a lot and wish we could become more serious and possibly have a relationship…but he’s in the closet about his sexuality. He won’t tell his parents or close friends about our relationship. Should I try to talk to him about how I really feel about him or do I first have him decide if he wants to come out to his friends and family, and should I help him along?
Dating A Bisexual
Dear Coach:
There’s a guy that I’ve known for about a year and I always found him attractive but never said anything to him because he was in a relationship. About a month ago he told me that his prior relationship was over and since then we’d begun hanging out on a regular basis, up to 3-4x a week. I was really feeling like I was getting to know him and liked what I saw. During this time we also started to share secrets and kissed about 6 times.
A few days ago he told me that he just got into a relationship with another guy. I am very confused because he didn’t even tell me he was seeing anyone else. The issue that I have is that I still like him; the fact that he didn’t tell me about the other dude should make me want to push away from him, but it doesn’t. What should I do? Should I come out and spill my heart to him or just say nothing? I really thought he liked me too. Why would he keep the other guy a secret and continue to kiss me if he had no feelings toward me?
Confused
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