Dear Dr. Brian:
I am somewhat embarrassed to ask you this question, but I figured you would be a great person to ask. I have a HUGE foot fetish and get turned on by men’s feet. Where does a foot fetish come from? I believe we are born with our sexual orientation–so is this something that we are just born with or something that may develop over time? I remember liking men’s feet since I was like 4 years old.
Mr. Foot Guy read more >>
Dear Dr. Brian:
I have met a guy that I really like, but I don’t know what to do because I’ve never really dated before. He is great and is someone I can see myself being with for a long time. I don’t want to mess this up…what should I do?
Dating Virgin read more >>
Dear Coach:
My mom called me today to tell me that my brother had told her and my father that he was gay; she had assumed that I’d known. My brother has not told me yet, but I’ve had my suspicions for quite some time now. I love and support my brother and would stand beside him as an openly gay man. How should I talk to him about something he may be too afraid to tell me? read more >>
Dear Coach:
I am writing because I’ve lost my faith in the dating scene here in Michigan. I’ve
become so used to being hurt and ignored by men for whom I’ve had genuine
feelings. It makes me feel utterly lousy about myself and it’s even worse when I see everyone around me (both gay and straight friends) falling in love. I’m tired of feeling lonely, and with the summer upon us and being single again, I’ve about given up hope.
Dear Coach:
I have been in a relationship with my partner for going on 4 years now and up until the past year it has been great. About six months ago, we moved to a different state across country; I protested the move, but my partner is originally from there and all his family is there and I decided to give in because I thought I owed it to the relationship. A few months into the move, my partner’s ill father started visiting for weeks at a time until it reached a point to where he never went back to his own home. It’s extremely difficult, particularly since we live in a small one bedroom apartment and our bedroom has been relegated to sleeping in the living room since my father-in-law’s move-in. read more >>
Dear Coach:
I’m 23 and met a guy about two months ago. I tried to kiss him on the second date, but he refused. Since then, I keep getting mixed signals from him. He calls me and we talk for hours on the phone. But when I am alone with him, he treats me as if I was nothing more than a friend. Why does he do this to me when he knows how I feel about him? I want to talk to him about this, but how?
Perplexed read more >>
Dear Coach:
I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and he has 2 children. About a year into the relationship, I knew there was something not adding up. Well, I found out the hard way that he is still married to his wife! I tried many times to talk to him about this, and get different answers each time.
He’s been living with me and pays very little since he has kids and college expenses for them; but I have to say, it does bother me sometimes and it leaves me wondering where my future will be heading in this situation. Please help! read more >>
Dear Coach:
My ex-boyfriend wants to get back with me after a recent breakup. Should we reconcile? read more >>
Dear Coach:
My boyfriend and I talk about marriage all the time and our future. This is the real deal; the last man I will ever be with. I am ready to move to the next level of our relationship without any doubts or regrets. My boyfriend, however, is not ready yet. What does that mean? Why talk about marriage and a future if he is not ready for the living-together step? Is it me? read more >>
Dear Coach:
I’m in a new relationship with a great guy. We’re still in the dating
stage. During intimacy, I have times when I’m unable to end by
cumming. It frustrates me more than it does him. What can I do? read more >>