- The Gay Love Coach - https://thegaylovecoach.com -

The Dating Fitness Center for Single Gay Men & Lesbians

Welcome to The Dating Fitness Center! You’ve made a very wise decision by enrolling in our dating wellness club because you have now joined an exclusive membership with other relationship-minded singles. Here, you recognize that being single is an opportunity and that before you can really appreciate and thrive in a committed relationship with a life partner, you must first be solid and grounded yourself. This means that you’ve done the necessary work and are continually committed to the process of developing and actualizing yourself into your true potential. The ultimate outcome is that you lead a full life of purpose and passion and view yourself as a healthy and happy single. Through this personal growth process, you are maximizing your chances for attracting and sustaining fulfilling relationships with similar dating partners. Remember that according to “The Law of Attraction”, like attracts like. The more your life and self-esteem are in order, the greater your chances are that you will draw other dating prospects toward you that have also achieved a comparable level of well-being and “fitness.”

Before you begin your work-out for ultimate dating success, it’s very important at the outset of any kind of exercise regimen that you assess your current fitness level to determine your strong points and those areas of your life that require more strengthening. You can then use this information to develop goals for better wellness and self-improvement. What follows below are various domains of wellness with corresponding questions for you to evaluate your current life situation. This will help you to capitalize on your victories and to strategize an action plan for those parts in need of additional “strength training.”

Physical

Mental

Emotional

Behavioral

Social

Spiritual

Self-Esteem

Sexuality

While many of these may seem common-sense, you’d be amazed how many of these items can be overlooked and taken for granted in our busy, hectic lives. By working on any of these areas that could use a boost, you are making yourself that much more relationship-ready and “dateable” for your life partner candidates. You want to make sure that you are emotionally available for him or her when they show up in your life, and these issues can be distractions if not worked upon diligently.

So now that you’ve gone through your screening at The Dating Fitness Club, we encourage you to make good use of your membership and really work-out and build up those muscles in your life that could benefit from it, even if it’s just a light toning that’s required. And if you run into any snags along the way, please be sure to contact your personal trainer/dating coach for any assistance you might need to break through those blocks, embrace your potential, and craft an action plan for turning those hurdles into opportunities for growth and change. Be sure to stretch first!

(c)2009 Brian L. Rzepczynski, The Gay Love Coach

www.thegaylovecoach.com [1]

This particular article is not for re-publication in other e-zines, magazines, or websites as OneGoodLove.com owns the rights to this material in partnership. Any questions or consent to do is required by that organization.
Be Sociable, Share!
  • [2]
  • [3]
  • [4]
  • [5]